Tuesday, March 26, 2024

THE GREAT SECRET…




The great secret that all older people share is that you really haven’t changed in seventy or eighty years. Your body changes, but you don’t change at all. And that, of course, causes great confusion.

     ~Doris Lessing, 1992~







Doris May Lessing CH OMG (née Tayler; 22 October 1919 – 17 November 2013) was a British novelist. She was born to British parents in Iran, where she lived until 1925. Her family then moved to Southern Rhodesia (now Zimbabwe), where she remained until moving in 1949 to London, England. Lessing was awarded the 2007 Nobel Prize in Literature. In awarding the prize, the Swedish Academy described her as "that epicist of the female experience, who with scepticism, fire and visionary power has subjected a divided civilisation to scrutiny". Lessing was the oldest person ever to receive the Nobel Prize in Literature, at age 87. In 2001 Lessing was awarded the David Cohen Prize for a lifetime's achievement in British literature. In 2008 The Times ranked her fifth on a list of "The 50 greatest British writers since 1945"

You can read more about her life here, which is where I read the information above.



44 comments:

  1. I love it!! And I believe it's true. This is why so many seniors just can't believe how old they are and say they feel younger. Doesn't time just go by in the blink of an eye, and we are always what we are.

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    1. Happy you enjoyed the quote Ginny :) My dear Mother always told me the older you get, time goes even faster. I find myself at peace with that.

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  2. How true what Doris May Lessing said!! The soul remains the same! A child's soul in an old body!!

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  3. I have read and enjoyed a number of her books. Mind you, I hope I have changed - for the better.

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    1. That’s wonderful my friend, it’s all we can hope for, to change for the better, to grow :)

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  4. She expresses it so well - it is a universal truth, in the western world, anyway.

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    1. Glad you liked it Margaret, it is fun making the prompts and seeing what they create :)

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  6. I do know some people who have lost touch with their inner child and to me they are very stuffy. I can't imagine they would have been stuffy as small children. Then again maybe they were.

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    1. May we always keep in touch with our inner child :)

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  7. This is beautiful and true to its core for me. My heart is one age, but the calendar tells me otherwise.

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    1. Thank you Martha Ellen :)Those calendars are always there to remind us.

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  8. An interesting, intelligent woman, very much a visionary in many ways, who I knew by name only. Thanks for making me delve deeper. Now I have to make a visit to the library!

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  9. Interesting quote! I am pretty sure over the years I have changed, for the better.
    Take care, have a great day!

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    1. Thank you Eileen, my interpretation of this quote is that we still feel young in our head, even though our outside changes. Hopefully I have changed for the better also :)

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  10. Well, Doris is half right. Our bodies certainly change but I wouldn't want to be the person I was when I was young. I was very different.

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    1. Very good point Red, we all evolve, wiser I hope :)

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  11. I find this to me more and more true the older I get!

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  12. Doris Lessing was a very wise woman and her words ring true for everyone of a certain age.

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  13. What a life she must have had. She saw Iran before it was wrecked. She saw Rhodesia before it was wrecked. Wow.

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    1. She led an amazing life full of adventure I'm thinking. Thanks Sandi :)

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  14. Haha...I have to say sometimes when I'm feeling especially young and then I look in the mirror I do get confused for a second. Happy Easter week to you!

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    1. Looking in the mirror brings me back to reality, that's for sure Ellen. I am still chuckling after reading your comment, thanks for that :) Happy Easter week to you also.

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  15. I certainly understand this quote Denise. (I feel like signing this "confused" ))

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    1. Another chuckle, thank you Sallie :) From one who is quite often confused, I can relate ;)

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  16. this is wonderful denise...and much of how i have been feeling these days!!

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    1. Thank you Debbie, sometimes my body has a hard time catching up with my head, and at other times my head has a hard time slowing down for my body, if that makes sense. I guess we are all in the same boat :)

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  17. Yes and sometimes it’s a shock when I look in the mirror.

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    1. Isn't that the truth? I'm thinking of covering my mirrors, lol!

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    1. That’s great, I need to find some of her books :)

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