~Arthur Ashe~
Are you looking forward to the crocus blooming? I know I am. This is one of my old photos.
Sunday, February 15th, 2026: each week our son comes over after he has dropped our dear daughter-in-law off at work. He arrives early and usually picks her up not too long after the noon hour when she has finished. That gives us a lovely visit.
He helped us to get a few things taken care of and was a big help with heavy lifting.
He also sorted my streaming channel out as there was a disconnect between the TV and my iPad. So, he fixed that for me. He is so much faster with these electronics. We would get there eventually but, in the meantime, he gives us a short cut. Great to have the help.
Then we settled down to watch the Winter Olympics. We saw women's curling, men's figure-skating, women's skeleton* which is face-down hill on a sled at 80 miles an hour (how on earth they do that on a tiny sled I will never know). There was also the women's half-pipe (snow-boarding), women's 500 meter speed-skating and now the Men's Biathlon.
We watched the medals being given to two young ladies from the Netherlands who won the gold and silver, and a young lady from Japan who won the bronze. The young lady from Japan asked for a selfie of the three of them as soon as they got off the podium with their country’s flags behind them, all very excited and very sweet. This was for the 500-meter speed skating. Well done ladies!
It was very noticeable the good sportsmanship between winners and those who weren't the winners but came so close. I was particularly very proud of the young man (a local boy from Vienna, Virginia) - who fell and was so upset after he realized that he had missed his chance for a win, and yet he congratulated so warmly the young man from Kazakhstan who won the gold. Does the heart good to see all that, young people being 100 percent nice to each other. This is the first time we have watched the Winter Olympics at such length, encouraged by our son who had been following the events and wanted to see what was happening (what we were seeing was not live but took place today). This coming from me, who really isn't into sports but who thoroughly enjoyed it all.
Thank you son for everything you did for us today.
* I asked Google why do they name the winter sport at the Olympics 'skeleton', as in the event, Women's Skeleton?
The name 'skeleton' for this Olympic winter sport is primarily attributed to the physical appearance of the original equipment used in the late 19th century. While there is no single definitive origin, historians and the International Bobsleigh and Skeleton Federation (IBSF) point to three main theories:
Skeletal Appearance: in 1892, an Englishman named Mr. Child introduced a new metal sled for racing. This sled had a bare-bones, stripped-down design that many thought resembled a human skeleton or ribcage.
Mistranslation: Another common theory is that "skeleton" is a poor English anglicization of the Norwegian word 'kjelke (pronounced 'shell-keh", which simply means "sled" or "toboggan".
Course shape: some early accounts suggest the name came from the original twisting, serpentine courses used in Switzerland, which early participants thought looked like the curves of a skeleton.
Event History and Context:
Origins: the sport was born in St. Moritz, Switzerland, in the 1880s as a spin-off of tobogganing.
Women's Skeleton: while men's skeleton appeared sporadically in the 1928 and 1948 Olympics, women's skeleton was officially introduced much later, when the sport became a permanent Olympic fixture at the Salt Lake City 2002 Games.
The Sled: unlike luge (feet-first) or bobsleigh (seated), skeleton is performed head-first and face-down on a thin metal frame.
And now we know! Yes, everything goes on here. I will have fun reading this when I have forgotten what information I found out and need a memory jogger.
Monday, February 16th, 2026: I am writing this the next day (Tuesday), so let’s see what I can remember. We went over to Micky D’s for lunch, no breakfast as we were a bit late getting up. It felt good to lie in and read for a bit in bed before starting the day. So, burger and fries and have to remind myself that I ate healthy for the rest of the day.
Father and son got together later and their dinner was more exotic. They drove to Tysons (still a very popular shopping mall) and had dinner from an Indian restaurant called Dhoom, link here. Gregg ordered a stuffed bread with chicken tikka and shredded cheese served with masala makhani sauce. They shared it as it was called a small plate. Both said it was very good. It reminded him of a pizza on a thin crust. Son ordered the aloo gobhi matar which was a medley of potatoes, cauliflower, and peas, sautéed with aromatic Indian spices. Another item, Plain Roti. No photos guys? Nope, no photos! They each shared half of each other's dish. It came with basmati rice and they asked for these chutneys/sauces. Gregg wants to take me there, said I would enjoy it. I would have to look at the menu online before going, there is so much to choose from it would be a bit overwhelming just turning up and I feel rushed to pick something. However, I was happy with having a meal at home.
One more thing was what I learned about their other item described as Scottish Egg Kofta. I love Scotch Eggs, though I haven't had one in years.
Here's the restaurant's description of theirs:
"Scottish Egg Kofta is a traditional Nargisi Kofta - originating from British India (modern day Pakistan), our Scottish Egg Kofta blends history with flavor. This dish, originally from India and later adopted by the UK during the British rule, is now known today as Scotch Eggs. This shareable dish features spiced ground lamb meat wrapped around a boiled egg, in a savory brown curry sauce, served with basmati rice."
I enjoy the history of food and where it comes from. Little did I know that Scotch Eggs originated from India, and from the now modern-day Pakistan. Here is theKitchn's version, link here if you're curious.
Anyhow, I heated up our Thai dish we made again the other day and thoroughly enjoyed. I tidied up a bit and settled down to watch The Night Manager.
John le Carré book is what the series is based on. Very much an edge of your seat at times but the acting is excellent. I am into the 2nd season that was filmed 10 years after the first. My three favorites, Tom Hiddleston, Olivia Coleman and Hugh Laurie are the main characters, a bit hands over eyes stuff at times but a show that draws you right in. Hugh Laurie plays a very evil man. I am totally invested and no, not everyone's cup of tea. It is so intense I can only watch one episode and then I have to give it a rest and watch a Hallmark movie. Yes, I enjoy both for different reasons. Love cops and robbers/spy shows and I also love a good romantic one.
Case in point, La Dolce Villa (not a Hallmark movie). If you enjoy rom-com, this one was delightful, a father is worried about his daughter's move to Italy who then bought a villa for 1 euro in a small Italian town. He high-tails it over there to see what's what and I smiled all the way through it. I found it a charming movie. It's on Netflix. The Night Manager is on Amazon Prime.
Tuesday, February 17th, 2026: I broke my reading glasses, the part that holds them on my ears. They are the only ones I can use for my laptop. They are progressives, the blue tint kind so I can't use my regular reading glasses, unless I get my nose right up to the screen. I am wearing the broken ones. A bit of a nuisance and lopsided, but the new ones arrive tomorrow. Everything goes down on here as you know.
Breakfast was a bagel and cream cheese and while Gregg was out, I had a bowl of raspberries, blackberries and blueberries with a scoop of plain yogurt for lunch.
Dinner was leftovers again, a vegetable stir fry. A no fussing in the kitchen day.
Son called, he needed a ride to get to an eye appointment as he is without a car this week. His dad loves these days when they can get together, and makes it known that he is always available (much easier in retirement obviously). I am always invited but I really dislike slowing them down and I can't gad about like I used to. The time goes quickly and hubs is back in the blink of an eye, or so it seems when I get focused on something here.
Wednesday, February 18th, 2026: Gregg and I went to Chateau de Chantilly Cafe this morning. We arrived shortly after 10.00 a.m. and fortunately there were two parking spots available right next to a huge mound of snow still left over. We found a seat inside about half-way down the restaurant, making ourselves comfortable in the easy chairs. It isn't a fancy place as you might think by the name. Shabby-chic comes to mind when describing it. Gregg had his Cheese Danish and I my Dubai Pistachio Croissant. I had a venti vanilla coffee and Gregg his coca-cola. My pastry is very rich and along with the coffee, I don't feel like I could eat any more that day but...
Hello Family and Friends, thank you for reading and getting in touch letting me know you enjoy them still. Batten down the hatches or at least get a cuppa, this is a long one.
Monday, March 17th, 2025: St. Patrick’s Day! I hope you all had a lovely one.
Gregg went to the car dealership. They gave him a ride home as we needed quite a bit of work done on the car. He will pick it up tomorrow.
Breakfast: Weetabix, dates and almonds today.
Lunch: we made our lemon spinach and pasta dish. You can find that here. A favorite meal and one our daughter-in-law gave us a long time ago. It's always a delicious treat. We made it on impulse as all the ingredients were in our supplies, except for one. It is a vegan recipe though on checking the pantry we realized we didn’t have any vegetable broth but did have beef and used that. It was still very good, though we have the vegetable one on the shopping list for next time. We are making more meatless dishes these days.
Dinner: tomato and grated cheese sandwich on sourdough bread.
Snacks: skinny popcorn.
Tuesday, March 18th, 2025:
Happy Birthday Gregg!
We had a birthday brunch with son and daughter-in-law, and were picked up and taken to an eatery father and son had been to a couple of times. Gregg said he would like to go there for his birthday. There was no skinny popcorn in sight on this day.
The place is called The Bakery & Museum Company. I found them on Yelp at this link. We had breakfast sandwiches that were excellent, and of course the company was great. I will write more about it on another day as I thought it would be nice to do a post on its own.
The same day I had an eye exam. Gregg wanted me to get the appointment as we were out and about. He said Walmart had an optometrist and he wanted me to go over there. I wasn't thrilled but how could I say no on his birthday? (I knew I had to get to the DMV to get a new driver's license - Real ID - which will be required after May 9th for all air travel and I don't know all the ins and outs on that one.) Right now, all I have are the reading (magnifying) glasses you can buy anywhere. They have worked well for me for a long time. I felt my ability to see at a distance might be more questionable though, and I didn't want to have difficulty with the eye test when applying for my new license. The Birthday Boy, wanting to get this license taken care of, steered me to the optometrist's office.
He went inside first to find if I could get an appointment and I was confidently saying to myself, I won't get it at this short notice. He texted me (I was waiting in the car with son as by this time our daughter-in-law had left and was getting on with her workday). It was a go! I was surprised they could fit me in right away.
In the waiting room I filled out forms a young lady gave me. She took me into a room where she started my eye tests. Looking at a photo of a house in the distance inside the first machine, blurry then clear and I didn't have to say a thing, a light in the other view finder with a puff of air blown into each eye and somewhere there was a bright red spot but can't remember the sequence. She told me everything she was going to do right before she did it. The puff of air in the eye would have been startling. Lastly a camera which took a picture of each eye. Then I was taken into another room where I waited for the optometrist. The young lady peeked out the door and asked Gregg if he would like to join me.
The optometrist arrived soon after checking out my results from the tests, and he was a real comedian. He put me at my ease right away with his banter. I can't remember everything about the test, but I looked into another machine with lines of letters that I had to read in different sizes. I was looking for eye charts on the wall when I went in but no, they are in the machine now.
He asked me if I wore glasses and I showed him my reading ones and said, no other glasses just these for reading, not prescription, and told him they were a No. 4 magnifier. He looked over at Gregg after he had assessed the results, saying, "Your wife has great eyesight. She doesn't need glasses and she's fine with these reading ones." I was flabbergasted and so was husband, "What?" he said in total surprise, and "But she squints all the time. Why does she squint?" The doctor said, "Habit!" I thought about that. I think it maybe be that I adjust my eyes from looking through my readers to using my own regular vision, or it could be habit, who knows? Gregg's expression made me laugh out loud. He kept staring at me shaking his head. The eye doctor said to Gregg, "She's probably got better vision than you do." I chuckled all the way out of the office. Son came and picked us up at the door, Gregg told him and even he was surprised.
"Your mother's got better eyesight than your dad." I said, “Not that it's a competition or anything." A favorite expression of Gregg's. He still had that look on his face.
After all my nerves about going in, I was absolutely joyful and relieved that I didn't have to go back for another year. Father and son kept looking at me. They have both seen me squinting, both telling me I needed to go get my eyes checked for quite a while now (I did need to of course). I don't think they quite believed it. Son asked me, "Then why are you always squinting? Gregg chimed in, "I asked him that. Habit he said!" And then son, "Can you read that sign over there?" It was quite a ways off but I read the numbers. Son took his glasses off (we were stopped at a traffic light) and he said, "I can't read that, it's a total blur. You can read that?" I read it again. I was really enjoying myself with these two. I felt like the cat with the cream after hearing them tell me all this time that I really needed to go get my eyes checked, and of course they were right. The optometrist did say I might have a very slight cataract but nothing that needed to be seen right away, and to come back in another year so he could assess. If I felt I needed to come sooner, make an appointment. I could have kissed the man! I think he enjoyed Gregg's look of astonishment as much as I did. He definitely had a twinkle in his eye.
The Birthday Boy had been waiting to hear from the car dealership, they called to tell him he could pick the car up. I was dropped off at the house and son took his dad to the dealership.
More on Gregg's birthday in a few days. He had a busy but more importantly an enjoyable one. I didn't realize when we started out, only thinking about his birthday, that his goal that day was to get me in to see the optometrist and Brad was his back-up, lol! Wild horses you know! Here are some daffodils on sale at Walmart.
Wednesday, March 19th, 2025 at 9.29 p.m: we went to Green Spring Gardens, which shared a few days ago here if you missed it.
Thursday, March 20th, 2025: we started early today and went to the Department of Motor Vehicles to get my driver's license renewed. It doesn't run out until my birthday a few months from now, but I have to get a new license before May 9th called Real ID, which will allow us to board planes on any flight, domestic or international. I don't know all the ins and outs on that one, new rules! We ran into a roadblock and couldn't get it today, as we didn't realize we needed more ID than what we had already. We needed my birth certificate (found out later they won't accept overseas birth certificates or our overseas wedding certificate. They wouldn't have accepted them but we were given a whole list of alternatives), plus two pieces of mail addressed to me with my name on them.
I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow and will probably wait until one day next week. I'd suggest if you have to do the same thing for anyone over here, check out your own DMV website, which is what we should have done before we left home for the new rules to follow.
The morning wasn't a total loss as Gregg had seen a restaurant he wanted to go to and as it was in the same area, we drove over there next. (No skinny popcorn on this day either either!) We don't usually go out to these sit-down restaurants unless it's a special occasion, but my dear other half reminded me it was still his birthday week, and we had a lovely time. The place was called The Lazy Dog. More on that in a few days also. This photo was taken by me at the entrance looking towards the sculpture.
We came home to four big boxes on the front step.
We ordered a new kitchen set as our old one is way past its expiration date (48 years plus past to be precise). With family visiting mid-April, we thought it was a good time to get something new. We have talked about it often. That old set has been through six cross-country moves during our navy days with lots of dings added over the years, and the chairs wobble!
Gregg spent an hour putting a chair together. The instructions weren’t the best. One down, five to go and then a table (the rest went a lot faster, as did the table)! A big smile came over his face as he sat on the floor putting these together, saying these reminded him of the days when he did the same thing with the old G.I. Joe toys at Christmas and on birthdays when our son was a young boy.
Friday, March 21st, 2025 at 8.25 p.m: I saw my doctor today. It was a good visit. She asked me lots of questions about my knee and I told her I would be seeing the orthopedic doctor soon to get another cortisone shot. With all the activity this week my knee is very sore. I told her I didn't want to do anything about having surgery yet with my overseas family visiting in less than a month. I'll revisit that subject soon after. My GP is transferring but I was happy she was coming back in three months. I will be making another appointment with her then. I can't say enough nice things about this doctor, in fact all of the people I have dealt with at that part of the hospital. It goes a long way to have confidence in those who take care of your welfare.
Saturday, March 22nd, 2025 at 7.19 p.m: I feel chilled. After our few warm days, the temperature has dropped. I fixed myself a cup of chamomile/honey/vanilla tea and it is very comforting.
Today we have eaten lighter. No breakfast but for a late lunch Gregg had bought two individual green chili bowls from Trader Joe’s and popped those in the oven. He enjoys them more than I do but they weren’t bad. I do wish I had made soup though. Maybe tomorrow.
As we had a late lunch almost at dinner time, all I wanted was a lemon Greek yogurt for supper, and three dates along with a few pecan halves finished the meal.
Son popped in for half an hour this afternoon as he was passing by. We will be seeing him on his usual Sunday morning.
Gregg put together two more chairs today. He is going to get help tomorrow to put the table together.
Sunday, March 23rd, 2025 at 7.30 p.m: Gregg enjoyed putting the last two chairs together but decided to leave the table as he wanted a break. Table will be tackled tomorrow.
Son came over for a few hours. Gregg cooked us a great breakfast of fried eggs, slices of turkey sausage from a roll (I was using it for a recipe but have forgotten what recipe I was going to make), sautéed cherry tomatoes and a scallion pancake.
Our son shared photos of a fox he saw as he was driving into the neighborhood.
Our usual chat-fest about this, that and the other and then it was time for him to go.
Gregg went off to Costco this afternoon for a few things; skinny popcorn (we are going to start looking like skinny popcorn but it makes a nice snack), Dawn liquid and a few paper supplies. He also went to Aldie and picked up a loaf of sourdough, as well as tomato soup, felt pads for the bottom of the chair and table legs to prevent scratching the floor, and that's about it.
Lunch was late again and turned into dinner. This time Gregg fixed a sandwich of sliced rotisserie chicken breast he also picked up from Costco, with a large thin slice of beefsteak tomato, lettuce and alfalfa sprouts. It was enjoyed and all we needed.
For a snack later we had a bowl of skinny popcorn! I think I am getting a bit tired of that stuff now.
Shortly after dinner, a face at the window that hasn't been seen in several weeks and was a surprise. This amuses me no end because Fluffy Cat always stops nose to window and stares at Gregg who was having a rest on the sofa after putting a few chairs together. He would be the first to admit that he is not too fond of cats and prefers dogs, but Fluffy Cat always makes eye contact with him first. Look at those hypnotic eyes, "feed me" they say.
Fluffy sat in the usual spot staring through the glass, still looking at Gregg sitting on the sofa. Watched him for quite some time, until I got up to take a few photos, moves over to the top of the steps, just like the last few times and disappears shortly afterwards.
Now we're sitting around having a quiet evening. Dear Other Half is reading and I am finishing this off.
Going to the DMV tomorrow and hopefully there will be no more delays getting my new driver's license (added note as it is now the next day, the 24th. It all went smoothly and the new license will be sent through the mail. I should get it in a week to ten days.)
A bit of a long one this time!
Thanks for reading through.
Have a great week!