Showing posts with label Rambles 2023. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Rambles 2023. Show all posts

Sunday, December 31, 2023

NEW YEAR’S EVE


I am still listening to holiday music but it will soon be time to sing this one.

https://youtu.be/PER8f7bQIlg?si=NAf6ngF0iXUws1HX


I have lost count of how many times in my 73 years I have sung this song.  In my family it was a tradition on New Year's Eve. Aunts and Uncles would come on over, as well as close friends of my parents, while listening to Andy Stewart as he hosted Hogmanay on TV.

What is Hogmanay and for those who are unfamiliar to the term, this is what I found online:

"Hogmanay is the Scottish celebration of New Year's Eve and can last for days.  No one celebrates the evening quite like the Scots.  It is believed the Scots inherited the celebration of Hogmanay from the Vikings and their celebration of the shortest day.  Many, however, believed that as Christmas was virtually banned and not celebrated in Scotland from the end of the 17th century until the 1950's, New Year's Eve was an excellent excuse for revelry, to drink whisky and eat good food.  To this day Hogmanay involves parties and festivals all across Scotland, with the largest and most famous public party in Edinburgh."

I had an Aunty who was born in Scotland, who used to tell me how she celebrated as a child and I loved those stories. 

For us we joined our family circle and crossed arms, held hands and sang Auld Lang Syne as the clock struck midnight and we said goodbye to the Old Year. Then we hugged one another and raised a glass to bring in the New. It was the only night of the year that we kids were allowed to stay up late and party with the adults. There was always a lot of laughter in our house, especially at times such as these.


Auld Lang Syne
by Robert Burnes in 1788

Should auld acquaintance be forgot,
And never brought to mind?
Should auld acquaintance be forgot,
And auld lang syne!

Chorus:
For auld lang syne, my dear,
For auld lang syne.
We'll tak a cup o' kindness yet,
For auld lang syne.

And surely ye'll be your pint stowp!
And surely I'll be mine!
And we'll take a cup o'kindness yet,
For auld lang syne.

Chorus:
For auld lang syne, me dear,
For auld lang syne.
We'll tak a cup o'kindness yet,
For auld lang syne

We twa hae run about the braes,
And pou'd the gowans fine;
But we've wander'd mony a weary fit,
Sin' auld lang syne.

Chorus:
For auld lang syne, my dear,
For auld lang syne.
We'll tak a cup o' kindness yet,
For auld lang syne.

We twa hae paidl'd in the burn,
Frae morning sun till dine;
But seas between us braid hae roar'd
Sin' auld lang syne.

Chorus:
For auld lang syne, my dear,
For auld lang syne.
We'll tak a cup o'kindess yet,
For auld lang syne.

And there's a hand, my trusty fere!
And gie's a hand o'thine!
And we'll take a right gude-willie waught,
For auld lang syne.

Chorus: 
For auld lang syne, my dear,
For auld lang syne.
We'll tak a cup o'kindness yet,
For auld lang syne.


This week we are returning back to normal after all the fun activity of the holidays. We become reflective and realize we have so much to be thankful for. No day is taken for granted because having family and friends whose lives have changed in the blink of an eye, and with events that have happened in our own lives, we know only too well that we need to count each day as a blessing. For me, if I have made any New Year's Resolutions it is this, to tell those nearest and dearest to me how very much I love them, and how much better I am for having them in my life.   

And to those whose lives are affected terribly by world events, our hearts go out to you, we see you and wish you Peace and Joy in 2024.  

A Happy New Year to everyone!  
May it be your best one ever,
And in the words of this marvelous melody,
Let’s tak a cup o'kindness yet,
For auld lang syne.







Thursday, December 28, 2023

CHRISTMAS DAY 2023 - OUR DAUGHTER-IN-LAW SINGS

 

I am in the middle of putting our Christmas Day post together but in the meantime, I wanted to share this with you. It is a video of our daughter-in-law Lisa singing a Christmas Carol, Oh Holy Night, at home. It is always a joy for us to listen to her sing. She is a Cantor at her church, teaches Choir and is a voice coach. She is also a piano teacher and on top of everything else is a wonderful artist. Her voice is that of an opera singer and she has had voice lessons since childhood. 

On special occasions she gifts us with her voice.  The last time we were all together she sang a piece from a German Opera. I sent it to my brother-in-law (he and my niece live in Germany). He enjoyed her voice very much and asked if she spoke German.  He said her pronunciations were absolutely perfect. 

All I know is that her voice can evoke such memories for me, as this is the music I grew up with and I still love. It's been a long, long time since I listened to my Father. He encouraged me to join him as he sang his own opera pieces and Carols at Christmas. I still have sheets of his old music stored in the basement. I was his page turner. I should find them and share them with Lisa. He was also an excellent piano player, as is our daughter-in-law.  They would have become firm friends. 

My sweet daughter-in-law gave me permission to share this with you today.  Our son took the video during our time together on Christmas Day.




Saturday, December 16, 2023

SATURDAY MORNING AT THE BIRD FEEDER...AM I TOO NOISY?
















Everything was okay, they were just asked to not be so chatty, or at least if they were chatty, to take it up to the trees and keep the decibels down.

This noisy bird scenario came from something that happened to me in 1982.  Going back to our navy days, there was a time that Gregg was being sent to a school in northern California. I had three close friends in the neighborhood, and every morning we would meet at 5.45 a.m. to get some exercise. I can't remember why we chose that early hour, probably because we needed to be back for husbands and children who were all off to school. I remember dragging myself out of bed but once we started walking and talking, I woke up and had a whole lot of fun, was back in time to say goodbye to Gregg for the day and wake up our son who was only three at the time.

Our route took us through a wooded area, then through navy housing and then another wooded area. There were times when we would get very animated in our conversation, we'd laugh and just chatter away and generally enjoy each other's company. 

One morning, after doing this for about a month, a security guard pulled up beside us. Apparently, someone had complained and called them, telling them there were these really annoying women waking them up every single morning, and they needed to be told to either quieten down or change their route. We were shocked as we had no idea we were that loud, or that we could be heard inside these homes.  

We didn't change our route and continued walking every morning. However, when we came anywhere near the houses, we would zip our lips and do a fast trot until we reached the other side of the woods, so that we could continue that animated conversation.  

The security guard was more amused I think.  Occasionally I would see him elsewhere. He smiled and pretended he didn't recognize the woman whom he could use as a loudspeaker, without needing an actual loudspeaker, if ever he needed one. He was so nice to us, I'm sure we would have volunteered without hesitation. And there were no more complaints after he had a friendly chat with us.

When I started looking at these photos, wondering where my bird chatter was going today, this is where it went.  Funny what pops into your head. I haven't thought about that for years. 

Thanks for joining me today, and I hope I didn't talk too loudly!  Truthfully, I am the last person who talks at all these days.  I much prefer listening and adding snippets here and there.

Have a great weekend my friends.





Wednesday, December 6, 2023

THE CHRISTMAS TREES ARE UP, WITH MORE TRIPS DOWN MEMORY LANE

I started decorating earlier, two weeks before Thanksgiving for the family room tree, and a week for the one we put in the front room. I asked my dear other half and my dear son to bring them up from the basement. It was nice to have them done for Thanksgiving and they made the day even more special. 

We replaced real trees with artificial ones when son left home to set up on his own. Every year before that when he was young, I loved going out in the cold, fresh air, often buying them from the local tree farm and watching father and son cut one down. The smell of pine wafting through the house was always a treat. However, when son left, it seemed the right time to go in another direction.

My mother would be smiling. She loved Christmas. We always looked forward to her homemade eggnog (and her lovingly made Christmas cakes, and fruitcakes were wonderful). Every Christmas she would put a spot of Cream Sherry on top of each glass of eggnog, and use a wooden toothpick to give it a decorative swirl. Funny the things you remember. She was very big on tradition and it always looked pretty and tasted delicious. Of course, we children were not allowed even a spot of sherry, but all our visitors, from family to friends who were like family, always enjoyed a glass along with a slice of cake.

My sister and I helped Mum decorate each Christmas. This consisted of hanging glass globes on a small tree, with little slivers of silver paper ‘icicles’. The tree was enormous in our eyes, a Charlie Brown tree we would call it now. Kids don't see the size of a tree do they?  We helped by blowing up colorful balloons which she hung from the ceiling, along with criss-crossed paper garlands, all attached with thumb tacks. When she accidentally popped a balloon, we would scream and giggle with delight. We used our child-power to blow up as many balloons as were needed. Quite a few popped every Christmas. Occasionally we would be sitting quietly and one would pop, but that was fun too and there were lots of spares at the ready.  

Another tradition was to watch television and listen to services filmed at one of the famous cathedrals. It was always joyful to listen to those age-old Christmas Carols sung by Harry Secombe, always accompanied by the boys’ choir. He was a Welshman, quite famous and well known in Great Britain. Among his many talents he had an exceptional voice which we heard at those Christmas Services. He was a favorite of my Dad, who could also sing beautifully and play the piano. We had a lot of sing-songs growing up, and it is because of him that I not only developed my love of wildlife, but of opera too. He knew the words to many and it was my job to turn the pages of music as he played and sang. Back in those days we were still creating our own entertainment.  

We decorated our home on Christmas Eve. Not sure if that was a general tradition or just our familys, but it was all taken down on 12th Night without fail. There is a lovely website that you can read here if you’re curious or want a refresher on how these traditions started. 

As mentioned at the beginning of my post, the tree I share today is the one in our family room.  For the first time ever I picked a theme, which seemed appropriate with all the activity that has been going on outside. I have a lot of bird ornaments, or angels, snowmen, Santa’s and others, all holding birds. There are also a few butterflies.  With the angels, birds and butterflies, the theme is definitely to do with wings.  I have a few to share today.  Others will be shared later.  They may be familiar as they have appeared during the lifetime of this blog. I like to take photos every year. It makes a good inventory for me as I see what I forgot and what still might be in a box somewhere.

If you click on the label "Christmas” at the bottom of this post, you'll see other years, new and old, along with all the activities.  “Christmas Ornaments” will be for the most part, only of those, with the occasional addition if they are part of a theme. Some may be familiar because of a particular company making several of them.

I have collected ornaments for 40 plus years. I started in earnest when our son was born, starting with his First Christmas ornament.  Getting a couple here and a couple there added up. I said to my dear other half, maybe it is time to stop collecting them now, and he quickly replied nope, you keep going. I do believe he enjoys seeing them as much as I do. Many have great sentimental value, many were gifts from Loved Ones who are no longer with us but lovingly remembered as we put their ornaments on the tree.

These are a few of the birds recently purchased in the collage below. Mother Nature holding the leafy birdbath was found in the summer. The birds are the kind that attach to a branch with a clip.  You will recognize Mr. and Mrs. Cardinal, top left and bottom, Mourning Dove middle left,  Catbird top right, then the Blue Jay and Tufted Titmouse.  All have been visitors to our garden at one time or another. I will share more ornaments as the month progresses.

I would love to know about your own traditions at this time of year, if you would like to share.

I appreciate very much you staying with me while I take another trip down memory lane.  I seem to be doing that more and more on my blog lately.  





Sunday, December 3, 2023

HAPPY SUNDAY EVERYONE - A 'THIS AND THAT' FOR DECEMBER...

...and more from Pinterest. I have been putting this post together for a couple of weeks now. I am hoping to finish it and have it ready to go out on Sunday, December 3rd.  This is quite a ramble just to be forewarned, ha!

A very dreary day and raining heavily. It is 40 degrees Fahrenheit, though it feels colder. We have had several colder days so I can't moan at today's liquid sunshine. It is a little warmer because of the rain, but still a hot chocolate kind of a day.


This is our weather for the next ten days.

 No walkies for Camera Lady and Camera Lady's Husband, though we did pop out and treat ourselves to a cheeseburger and fries at McDonalds, a relatively short trip. Our drive was between rains.  The woods will have to wait. 

Here's a few facts about John Muir.

He is known as John of the Mountains and the Father of America’s national parks, as well as patron saint of the American wilderness. His activism helped to preserve the Yosemite Valley, Sequoia National Park and other wilderness areas in America. John founded the Sierra Club, which is an acclaimed American conservation organization.”  Thanks Mr. Muir, we owe you a great debt!  You can read more about him at Wikipedia here.

I have been preparing tonight's dinner, one I have had on here before. It is a vegan Lemon Spaghetti with Spinach. The recipe can be found at this link.  We tried it for the first time in June 2020, though we have made it several times since then. It was one our dear daughter-in-law gave us. Though we are not vegan, there are times when I want to put a meatless meal on the table.  However, today we added shrimp, and also another veggie, mushrooms.

I have been unpacking more ornament boxes. Gregg always notices if I don't have any of my old painted ones on the tree. I couldn't find them last year and he noticed then too. As I was a little earlier, I made a special effort to dig deeper and found a few. I also found an old stained glass wreathe. I bought it from a lady when we lived in Monterey for two years back in the early 80s. My dear man put it on the wall in the family room, along with another Christmas wreath tucked in the bottom of the same box.  

Years ago I had a small cottage industry. A friend asked me to join her craft table many, many years ago. I wasn't sure what to do until I found a simple wooden ornament in a shop, the side profile of a policeman. I bought it, looked at it for a while, and Gregg said you could make something like that but turn him into a navy chap, so the seed was sown.  Here's the ornament I made for Gregg.  As I said, very rudimentary but with great sentimental value.
 Shortly after we were driving by a Chinese grocery shop with old fruit and vegetable crates at the back of the store. The owner was in the process of throwing them out. This very kind person gave them to me after we asked if we could take some of them. He wanted to get rid of them and said I could come back if I needed more. We packed every nook and cranny of our car. That sweet gentleman gave me a free supply of wood that lasted the whole two years we lived in Monterey.  

I had no idea how I was going to make my ornaments, so my friend and I went to the navy woodshop for advice. I was taught how to cut out shapes and how to sand them. It was a hoot because there were these dear chaps building cabinets, tables and more, and there I was with my old fruit crates cutting out small, very rudimentary wooden ornaments. I got teased a little which was all in good fun, but they were a good lot, and I left with dozens and dozens of shapes. I painted them with acrylics and sold them at the local annual navy craft fair. 

All those navy ornaments, which were all I had at that first craft show (on navy grounds), sold out early and I had dozens of orders, not only for navy ornaments but wives asking me if I could do the other services too, and also female uniforms. Gregg was in shock when he came home one day to find not only Navy but also Marine Corps, Army and Air Force uniforms hanging up on every door in our apartment. I often wonder what their husbands would have thought seeing their very neatly pressed dress uniforms in such a way.  Probably would have been as shocked as my husband was that first time he came home from the school and saw them.  The doorbell kept ringing every day for a quite a while. The ribbons were important to many, and I found a two-hair paintbrush (slight exaggeration but not far from it) to paint those ribbons, and I was asked to put them in the right order. I also learned how to do parachute medals. Gregg was not surprised when I asked him for a bandsaw and sander for my birthday, which we still have a chuckle about when we think back to those days. He truly had as much fun as I did as he helped getting boxes and boxes into the car and setting up tables. He was my second arm and he loved doing it. He and our son as son got older, would come over to every craft show, sit at the table and take over while I got a quick lunch break.  It kept me very busy for not only the two years we were in Monterey, but for the next 14 years at all the places we lived, and my ornament selection took on many different forms from Angels to Santa Clauses, to anything I could cut out and paint. 

Gregg gave me one of those "Do you remember when..." as I read this out to him.  He reminded me of a story I had all but forgotten, of a lady who called me from the Midwest right out of the blue.  To this day I can’t remember how she found out about me, that information has long since left my head.  Maybe a friend or relative who bought one of my ornaments and sent it to her, who knows?  She asked me if I could make one of her pet cow. I had started making simply shaped animals. She sent a photo of her pet, I found a cow-shape in one of my son’s children's books, outlined it on tracing paper, cut that shape out and then attached it to my broken-down veggie crate.  Then I cut it out, painted it, trying to follow the exact pattern of her pet cow's coat, along with the right color and sent it off.  I had also started taking a Sharpie along to the craft shows and personalized ornaments when asked. This lady had also asked me to add her pet cow’s name which I was happy to do.  I had a thank you letter from her telling me how tickled pink she was, which made the extra effort very worthwhile. 

There is also a story about my Christmas Ornament Mystery at this link and also here. I just remembered that. Blogging friends who have been following me a while may remember this, but it will be new to other friends who have been visiting since then.

Anyhow, this painting wooden ornaments became a passion of mine, I was hooked.  I had so much fun making them, selling them and meeting people everywhere we lived, some of whom became good friends. I did this until my hands gave out and I couldn't paint anymore. However, loads of great memories were made. And just for my dear other half, I still have a whole box of my wooden ornaments to find, and I'm still looking.

From Christmas ornaments and a pet cow, to this lovely Highland cow. 

“These types of cows are commonly found in the Highlands of Scotland. In the old Scots language, ‘coo’ means ‘cow’ so you may find many people still refer to this breed as either Highland cows or Highland coos. Scots language is a variety of English that’s been spoken in the Highlands for hundreds of years. But it’s not the same as Gaelic. In Gaelic, you’d call a Highland cow a ‘ Bò Ghàidhealach’. Now, try saying that with a mouth full of haggis!” 

They usually aren’t dressed this stylishly.

“Pan, who and what art thou?" he cried huskily.
"I'm youth, I'm joy," Peter answered at a venture, "I'm a little bird that has broken out of the egg.” 
~J.M. Barrie who wrote Peter Pan~
“I will spread my wings until I learn how to fly.  I’ll do what it takes to touch the sky.”
~sung by Kelly Clarkson and written by Avril Lavigne, Bridget Benenate and Matthew Gerard~
“Peace is the first thing the angels sang.”
"The best inheritance parents can give their children is a few minutes of time each day."
"The other day when I was walking through the woods, I saw a rabbit standing in front of a candle making shadows of people on a tree."
“Nothing says ‘holiday cheer’ like a snowman.” 
~Author Unknown~
No words needed, this says it all.
"I'm very happy being me, although sometimes I'd love to be a bird so that I could fly."
"Baking is my therapy, and the result is pure happiness."
  1. ~Author Unknown~
  2. Nothing to see here, just a snowman trying not to lose his nose.
  3. What is it with those noses?
Hang on to your, well you know, your nose!



Taking care of each other, that’s what it’s all about. 

"Be the hand - or antler - that lifts others up."
~Author Unknown~



For everyone of us...



Thanks for visiting and may you all have the happiest of Decembers!





Friday, November 10, 2023

BE A KIND HUMAN…

"Be a kind human. Always. Show compassion, have a listening ear, ask someone about their day, smile at strangers, say hi in the grocery store, everywhere. Show small acts of kindness throughout your life..."

~Author Unknown~

Kindness is not only good for their soul, but also good for yours.  If you find your kindness falls a little flat, be kind anyway, be kindness personified.  

We learn as we get older to treat each day not only as a learning experience, but as a blessing. We meet people who have been treated unkindly for a good part of their life and are surface-grumpy. We certainly don't know what they have been through, what awfulness they may have had to deal with. Often people are put off by this gruff exterior, and yes you have to use your common sense and be aware. I certainly wouldn't want my child for instance, reaching out without a parent or a much-trusted person's okay. We are more likely to see the dangers that they don't.

But, often younger people don't understand what it is like to get old and there are some who treat old age like it is something to be ignored or looked down upon. It is definitely the cycle of life, and it is important to remember that we all get there eventually.  In a sense we are returning to where we started, almost like childhood.  But we also might benefit when we realize the wealth of knowledge our older generation may share with us, and what they can still give to many.  Kindness and a smidgen of caring, a question here and there, can open a floodgate of knowledge into our own family history for instance.

With my own family, their kindness has always been what I am very proud of, and I know many would say the same thing of theirs.  I have often witnessed their kindness to people of all ages, but I find it especially touching when shown to someone who is much older than they are.  Kindness is a powerful emotion, and is not our weakness but our strength. In the sharing we could be giving our strength to another who might badly need it.  I have heard this quite a few times over the years, and it is very true.  We certainly need more kindness in the world right now, and a good place to start would be in our own garden, and move on from there.

~Me~


Just a few thoughts that pop into my head at times.  (I loved that original quote from this unknown author.  It sent me on a thoughtful journey today.  "She's got her head in the clouds again" I can hear my teacher saying, and I am once again smiling.)

If you would like to share your own thoughts, please let me know in the comments. You might be able to tell me something I haven't thought of, and my head is always open to learning something new. 


Ramble over with and thanks for visiting. I hope your day is a great one.