Showing posts with label Rambles 2021. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Rambles 2021. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 28, 2021

DOGS WE SAW IN WILLIAMSBURG, VA

 

We have been away for a few days.  Thank you for every welcome comment.  I will be catching up with you as soon as I can.

We had the opportunity to walk around Williamsburg (in Virginia).  This town is one of my all-time favorite places.  One of the many reasons I enjoy it, is that it is definitely a 'dog' town.  I have never had any cause for concern as they all seem to be much loved, beautifully behaved and well taken care of in every aspect.  

"Everything I know, I learned from dogs."
~Nora Roberts~
The expression on this little one's face gave me such a chuckle. It was if Sweetie was saying...
There were those riding in comfort. At this point in our walk I was thinking of asking if I could share his space!
One of my favorite childhood memories is when Dad used to be picked up by his K-9 colleagues.  These dogs, Alsatians as we always knew them, were police dogs.  They would sit patiently waiting while their handlers drank a cup of tea given by my Mum, with a meal ready for them when needed, and she never forgot a treat and a sip of tea in a bowl for their dogs.  We were young enough to hang around their necks and play with them.  Those dogs were very, very patient and as far as I could tell, enjoyed the attention we gave them.  We used to watch those same dogs on annual sports day in our town.  A volunteer would run across the field in a thick, padded suit, firing a fake pistol at the brave dogs.  The sound was loud enough to clap our hands over our ears.  In our childlike mind we did not see its serious side.  It was all very exciting as we watched 'our' dogs charging after the padded man, as they jumped and grabbed the wrist holding the fake gun.  Padded man toppled over and dog would win the day.  Much applause from all of us and on their very next visit to our house, those same dogs would get an extra hug, told how very brave and good boys they were, while we gave them an extra treat and Mum would fill their bowl with a few sips of luke-warm tea, in their very own bowl.  And of course a cup of tea and a sandwich for their handlers, friends of my Dad.  We used to have great conversations with those dogs.  I love these memories and they get sweeter as the years go by.
"Dogs do speak, but only to those who know how to listen."
~Orhan Pamuk~

On the journey home we saw this lovely dog.

She reminded me of our own sweetie our son grew up with.  There are times we still miss her.

Thanks for looking.  
I hope your days are filled with sunshine.





Tuesday, August 17, 2021

LEFT-HANDED?

Gregg told me it was Left-handed Day (He is the left-hander in our family and I wrote this last Friday when it actually was Left-handed Day).  

I laughed when he sent me this cartoon. He has acknowledged his left-handedness several times over the years.  I can see all these apply but the caption in the lower right tickled my funny bone particularly. That is so true!  He said did you know that Napoleon was left-handed, Prince William too?  No, I didn’t know that I said.  And then he rattled off several other notable left-handers.  He will say on occasion while looking at the TV, look, he (or she) is left-handed.  Of course, I have a lot of things I say that tickles his funny bone, but not going there today.  


Thanks for looking and hug a left-hander today!



Thursday, July 8, 2021

IT'S MY BIRTHDAY TODAY...

and my son and daughter-in-law are coming over this afternoon.  They are bringing Thai Food and my daughter-in-law is making me a birthday cake.  I am always happy when I know they are coming over.   I am not one for big parties but having my darlings here is going to make this day extra special.

I am now 71 years and as mentioned in my profile on the right of this page (which I changed around just a little), age has never really bothered me. At this stage of my life I want to be kind to everyone, life is too short to do otherwise.  I am not perfect, no one is, and neither is life but if you approach it with kindness and a good attitude, you're going to see that it's going to be worth it.  Wise, I read that somewhere and it has always stayed with me.  It's why I like quotes so much, they speak to me.

I found an old photo album when tidying up the storage room yesterday, and brought it upstairs.  We enjoyed looking at our younger selves, and talked about each photo.  It was a great walk down memory lane.

For those of you who have a birthday on the same day as mine, or this week even, Happy Birthday! Today is your day, hug those special people in your life, enjoy the things you love doing, smile at everyone you meet and if they don't smile back, realize they may be going through a few things (life can be a rollercoaster for sure).  Lastly, laugh out loud when you are told those corny jokes!  I aim to do all of that.

I will be away from my computer for a couple of days, but here are a few cards for you that I found online. 


















Saturday, May 22, 2021

ARTSY PHOTO OF...

 our son and a bit of a hodge-podge from our week.  Son came over a couple of days ago for a few hours.  I was sitting at the other side of the kitchen table while we were talking and I was drinking out of my half-pint mug.  When I got to the bottom of my glass of water I said to myself, that would make a neat photo and so here he is, an artsy one of son as taken through the bottom of the glass with my cell phone.  No I can't stop myself and my two fave guys are always so patient with my desire to record everything in our lives, even in artsy ways.  I can almost see my Dad smiling, he was the same way.

Next is a photo of my Mother's Day flowers.  They have lasted longer than I expected.  A few of the flowers are gone but most are still viable.  There were three wood lilies, and one took longer than the others to open up.  When I came downstairs a week later, this pretty bloom greeted me.

These were looking good also.  The flowers have lasted longer than usual.  I added plant food when I first got them, and fresh water every day, which is what I do with any flowers I get.  Always happy when they last this long.  They do brighten the place up.
 

We made a start to our planting before the heat gets too high.  Hellebores o. 'Pine Knot Select', hoping for a deep pink but I will be happy with what comes.  We also planted a couple of Pica Bella Coneflowers.

This week we will be buying more as we are trying to fill in a shady part of our garden and those frosty nights should be over by now.  The coneflowers will get more sun.  I want lots of butterflies and bees!

I was there to help out and act as gopher (go for this, go for that, you know how it is), but when Gregg asked me to get one of the tools he needed, on my way past another tree I saw a Catbird.  Yes, hubs got what he needed first as I gave him the box cutter, but I had grabbed my camera in the house and started taking photos of the bird.  I have to download them still and will post them next week sometime.  I was on call for the rest of the planting session, but I also wanted to take photos of our 17-year brood of Cicadas, which were/are everywhere.  Son took great shots near their place and has a lot more than we have.  They back onto woods.  I will share those in a few days also.  This is one I took.  Not everyone's cup of tea, but like all things in nature I find them fascinating.

I saw my first Cicada yesterday and I was wondering when we would be getting ours.  Last night we heard them singing, they were really loud!  As I walked around the garden I saw all these small holes in the dirt, and looking up there were dozens of their shed shells on the trellis.  Then I looked over at one of the hostas, one that needs to be trimmed as half of it seems to have died.  On the bare branches that needs to be removed, there were about a dozen or so shed skins.  Then I looked over at our Willow Oak and there were more on its trunk, one I saw in the process of shedding, and more like the one above climbing up the tree, there were several like that actually.  One stopped when I got close to it with my cell phone.  I hope this short video comes out as I think it is the first time I have tried loading one since blogger changed things around.  If it doesn't work I will get back to it later and see what I can do.  Gregg had just found thick tarp that had been laid about a foot down, maybe the last time we had extensive work done on that area, and he was having a really hard time cutting through it with the tools he had, even with the box cutter he had asked for.  He had to cut through it for each plant and it was hard going.  There was no way I could help and I felt exasperated for him.  The tarp was so embedded into the earth that it was impossible to pull up any large pieces.  A future project for removal!


There were lots of maple seeds lying around so had to take a photo of those.  

Next is a photo of a moth that was on the door screen when I went to let some fresh air in.  Pretty little thing but do not know what kind of moth it is.  This was also when I came downstairs first thing.  Such a pretty day today.

Someone posted the following on my neighborhood app, the same place I got my possum graphic that I posted yesterday (it is actually called an Opossum but I can't hear the 'O' sound very often).  There are a lot of animal lovers on my neighborhood app.  With the days getting hotter, it is a good reminder for the safety of our furry family members.  Even though we ourselves no longer have any pets, I still like to share these safety measures for others who do, just in case.

One of our neighbors across the street shouted hello when we were outside planting. He was walking up the hill with his dog.  I chatted to him for a while.  We both said how wonderful the weather was and I said something like it's nice to be getting back to normal, at which  he said with emphasis, oh yes it certainly is.  I asked him how his family was.  They had a baby girl not too long after they moved here and she was almost a year old already.  I was shocked.  It is hard to believe but with everything going on, not too many people have been out and about, and time has certainly marched on.  Yes, things are slowly getting back to normal.  No photos of our neighbor and his dog, but a nice memory of pleasant conversation.  
A very nice young man, and his wife and other little girl are the same way, and their dog usually comes over and says hello.

One last photo of a weekend treat.  Gregg makes the most delicious coffee milk shakes.  It is his memory from childhood.  He spent a lot of time in New England while visiting with his Mother's family.  He remembers New England milkshakes being thinner, which he prefers to this day and he makes them the New England way, at least from his memory of 60  plus years ago.  We lived in New England for about a year-and-a-half in Newport, Rhode Island.  We hadn't been married long but I don't remember what their milkshakes were like.  Have to say his are the best I have ever had.  I don't say it just because I know Gregg enjoys reading my posts, it's the truth.

A bit of a hodgepodge today and I realize I am all over the place.  This day has gone by so quickly and it's time to publish this before I put the computer away.

Thanks for stopping by and have a great weekend.  I will be back on Monday.



Tuesday, May 11, 2021

OCCOQUAN REGIONAL PARK, DOWN BY THE RIVER, AND A QUESTION

I have a question for you.  Has anyone had experience with the Live Traffic Feed widget that I have added to my right-hand side bar (scroll down right to the bottom)?  Enjoying geography as I do, I thought it would be interesting to see where everyone came from, but am not sure if it is worth keeping?  I wonder if you could let me know what you think of it in your comment.  Depending on what I can learn means I will either keep it or remove it.  Thanks in advance.

The first bird we found was our popular male Red Cardinal.  The female is also very beautiful but in a more understated way.  She is not like her flashy male counterpart and I enjoy her more muted colors.  She, however, was not seen on this photo op and I was grateful for the male's company.  (This link will take you to a website showing the female, and further down very similar birds.)

I borrowed the following illustration from here, and it has many more photos and more information if you would like to take a look.


This is the bridge I shared in a previous post, and you can see Gregg on the left.  It is between the parking lot and the short walk that takes you across another parking area (for cars and boat trailers this time), and then the river beyond.
It is a very pretty bridge and the new lush green leaves are making it even more so.
An Osprey can be seen sitting on a nest.  I don't know what that white strip is, hopefully not plastic.
It wasn't until I got the photos downloaded that I saw the Osprey, its head just poking above the nest.
A Cormorant  made its way down river also.
A mallard was swimming along at a much slower pace. 
The river was like an airport runway and we were right next to the landing path of the Canadian Geese.
"If we all had as much sense as geese, we will stand by each other in difficult times as well as when we are strong."
~Author Unknown~
When a goose gets sick or is wounded, two other geese drop out of formation and follow it down to help and provide protection.  They stay with the unhealthy member of the flock until it is either able to fly again or dies. When it is time to launch out, they will join another passing flock or try to catch up with their own."
~Author Unknown~
From our bench we watched as several Great Blue Herons flew down the river also, not all at the same time.
"A heron symbolizes calmness, patience and determination."
~Author Unknown~
These large homes and large boats intrigue me.  I want to go and knock on the door and say hello, who are you and what do you do in life?
When we first moved to Virginia from California over 30 years ago, we looked at a lot of houses.  We almost bought a place on the river in Occoquan.  Nothing as big as these but the commute into DC was too far for hubs way back before retirement.  The house we almost settled on had a sun room overlooking the river.  I think about that house occasionally, but am happy where we ended up.  We have had a good life here and our home fits us like a comfortable old shoe.  
Big boats and little boats mingled.  Families were out in their kayaks.
"I had no plans of any destination.  I wish to flow like a river."
~Lailah Gifty Akita~
"I was still water, held by my surroundings.  I am now a river, carving my own path."
~Scott Stabile~
This must have been where they rented them, unless they had their own. We walked by on the way to the river.
As we were leaving this area we also passed the 100 year old Beehive Kiln, used by prisoners to make bricks for the Occoquan Workhouse and other buildings throughout Northern Virginia and DC.  (The Lorton Reformatory has been closed for several years now.) This kiln and chimney are the last of the nine beehive kilns that once operated here.
As I read here, the reformatory began as a former prison complex established in 1910 for the District of Columbia.  I won't go into great detail but it has quite a history, not pleasant.  However, since it closed in 2001 and has been turned back over to the County of Fairfax, the maximum security wing has been turned into a shopping center, and the old medium-security "Central" facility is now an apartment complex, and the one time chow hall is now a gym.
At the same time we looked at that house I mentioned on the river, we also looked at a new housing community just down the road from here.  They were lovely houses.  There was, however, one name in the area that gave me pause as I read it,  "Prison View Estates".  I remember side-eyeing my sweet other half and asking if there was a prison nearby?  I don't remember his answer.  As we drove down the road my eyes got a little wider at the sight of the large buildings of the reformatory, on both sides of the road.  On one side was the men's section, on the other side was the place for women. 

One side note: my father taught me never to judge others by where they ended up in life, walk a mile in their shoes for a year he used to say.  He also taught my mom, my sister and me a few self-defense moves when we were in our teens (he was a 30-year career police officer).  To this day I am always aware of my surroundings (he sowed those seeds early).  I don't think about it too much now because it became second nature.  A lot of other sage advice on people followed through the years.  It was his mission in life to take care of his girls and teach them a few skills that might help if needed.

On his retirement from the force, a friend and old acquaintance of his asked him to come and work at a practice he had recently opened, a solicitor's (lawyers) office.  We had moved to Devonshire (UK) by that time and lived not too far from Dartmoor Prison.  Dad would often tell me about its history.  Part of his job was to visit clients inside the prison.  He would occasionally take us along and drop my mother, sister and me at the tea room in town, which wasn't too far away.  
We always drove by the entrance as the street we used to get into town took us right by the prison.  That entrance is carved into my memory, as I remember the bell above the old gate vividly.  I suppose it made quite an impression. Dad would warn us every time not to take any photos as we drove by, they weren't allowed.  My finger was itching for the shutter button but a promise was a promise.  On some of these trips we would pass by work crews being marched down the road with their guards. 

From the time dad dropped us off to the time he picked us up, it was usually enough to eat our tea and scones, and look around a couple of shops.  Princetown was a pretty little town and a stop for tourists, many of whom were interested in seeing that old historic prison.  I had heard if there were any escapes, and because of the location, many of them got lost on the moors.  There were bogs and rocky terrain to contend with, and then there was also the fog.  

These two photos above and below were borrowed from the website.  Even though we couldn't take photos of the main entrance, the view of Dartmoor Prison from a distance could be seen over a stone wall high up on a hill.  I have my own photos of it somewhere, from a greater distance than you can see here.  If you go to this website you will read that it was constructed between 1806 and 1809 by local labor, to hold prisoners of the Napoleonic Wars.  It was also used to hold American prisoners from the War of 1812.  (This prison will also be closing in 2023.)
But as I often do, I digress and getting back to where we were over 30 years ago.  My first impression of Lorton Reformatory was that the main building was very formidable looking, a big scary place and the guard towers weren't too far from the road.  They were close enough if I remember correctly, that we could see the guards at the top of those towers.  We passed by many times over the years, whenever we traveled in that direction on weekend road trips down south. 

My dear hubs had thought it would be a good idea to look at these houses.  I wasn't sure and was non-committal but I could already feel my heels digging so far down into the dirt, that in reality that dirt would have been over my knees and sinking deeper the more I thought about it.  

I remember clearly our conversation on this subject, going back and forth for a few days, and what sealed the deal to the 'nay', was the news that two men had escaped and police had closed off the neighborhood we had been looking at.  This wasn't the first time as others had gone over the wall before.  That was enough for me. We didn't buy that house either.  Gregg told me that the reformatory wasn't going to be around for long.  He had probably read about it closing, but it wouldn't be for another couple of years or so, maybe more, and I could not be persuaded.  He used to travel quite a lot back in those days, and I was just too much of a nervous nelly about it all.  I also reminded him what he said about the commute.  We have since driven by that  housing development many times and it is lovely.

Here's another page showing its history.  You will read that Frank Sinatra, Ella Fitzgerald and Count Basie once performed at the prison, in one of the fields.  It was also where many years earlier suffragettes were imprisoned and they were treated horribly. So yes, there is a lot of history in these buildings, and if we knew what those ladies had to go through on both sides of the Atlantic to get us the vote, we would realize what a privilege it is.  We owe them so much.  

I didn't start this page off to be such a long ramble, but for some reason my memories and my fingers started flying today.  I like to write our own family history for our son.  In fact it was why I started blogging in the first place.  He has been asking questions about our early years lately.