Another long one but worth the read I think.
You stand and face the mirror
And you magnify your flaws
You focus on the features
That are so uniquely yours
But their uniqueness doesn't matter
For they simply don't conform
To the criteria of beauty
They've convinced you is the norm
They make believe that beauty
Doesn't go beneath your skin
That you simply can't be pretty
If you have a crooked grin
They say your eyes can't be too small
Your nose can't be too big
That your lips must be just right
Not over full and not too thin
They say your ears must not stick out
Your hair can't be too wild
Only those with tick-box beauty
May be physically admired
But those obsessed by beauty
Are the ones who can't be free
Because they're limited by what
Somebody else says they should be
So next time you face the mirror
And you smile your crooked grin
Remember beauty's just a tower
That society's trapped you in
And you think you can't escape
Because you think there is no key
But you simply need to re-define
The walls of your beauty
by
Becky Hemlsey from her book
Talking to the Wild - The Bedtime Stories We Never Knew We Needed
Poem: The Tower
Preface: "What is a beautiful face without a beautiful soul?"
Page 27
Becky is wise beyond her years.
Becky Hemsley is an author I discovered last year and am so happy I did because when reading her poetry, I find myself saying, "Wow!" Becky lives in Leicestershire, UK, with her husband, two boys and their dog. She was formerly a primary school teacher for 15 years but now writes full-time and has written four collections. The first - entitled 'Talking to the Wild', which features the poem 'Breathe'. Also, another book now which is a follow on, 'What the Wild Replied. I treated myself to these two books. She also has two further regular collections, and one of loss and grief poetry, as well as three children's books, one of which is an illustrated version of 'Breathe', which I have also shared here, and a children's book of the poem 'Starlight'. She is drawn to, and moved by, nature and its consistencies with human emotion (this I can attest to). In her words, "I often think the phrase 'human nature' is a good one to describe my thought process when writing. I aim to make a difference with words by helping people realize they are not alone." She really is an amazing poet!
I have "What The wild Replied"! Love this poem. God made us all different because each of us is so unique. Uniformity in beauty is not the way it is supposed to be.
ReplyDeleteBeautifully worded Ginny, couldn’t agree more :)
DeleteLovely poem and sounds like such an interesting author. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Rita, I agree :)
DeleteBecky Hemsley’s words are a powerful reminder that true beauty begins when we dismantle the walls built by others and see ourselves through the lens of self-acceptance and soul-deep worth.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely Roentare! Thank you for putting it so succinctly :)
DeleteWhat a delight poem, love it Denise.
ReplyDeleteWonderful! Thank you Margaret :)
DeleteThank you - and Becky.
ReplyDeleteThank you my friend :)
DeleteI love this! Those are words to live by. Such a great message!
ReplyDeleteThank you Nicole, very much so! :)
DeleteThis poem is a powerful reminder to cherish the real beauty within us, beyond what the world tries to define. It’s like a gentle friend encouraging us to see ourselves differently, and that’s something we all need.
ReplyDeleteThank you for such a lovely description of this poem Melody :)
DeleteI love this poem, dear friend 🧡 I echo Ginny's comment, I feel the same way.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much Linda and it makes me very happy that you enjoyed this poem. Have a wonderful day dear friend :)
DeleteAccept yourself as you are, and let others see your beauty.
ReplyDeleteSo true and a lovely way to put it Janice. Thank you :)
DeleteA love poem :-D
ReplyDeleteThank you Ananka, I am happy you enjoyed this little :)
DeleteHaving read this poem I shall look in the mirror this morning and conclude that I am quite handsome! Self delusion is a fine art!
ReplyDeleteGood for you David :) and thank you for the smile.
DeleteWhat a wonderful poem. So true too. How many of us have hated the way we look because it doesn't fit in with what the magazines says is true beauty.
ReplyDeleteHappy you thought so Ann. It is a very wise poem. I read a model’s account once about how on one of her photo shoots, a magazine photoshopped her into a more svelte version of herself. A sad state of affairs and a terrible message for young people especially.
DeleteLovely poem Denise! Take care, have a great day and a happy weekend.
ReplyDeleteThank you Eileen and I wish you the same :)
DeleteIt's a gift from God when we find an author who speaks to our hearts. I like your fav too.
ReplyDeleteThank you Carol :) it is indeed.
DeleteThis poem nails it. The world is influenced too much by superficial characteristics.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely! Couldn't agree more Red, thank you :)
DeleteI really love your the photo and the words are just beautiful
ReplyDeleteHugs cecilia
I am so glad you loved both the photo and the poem Cecilia :) Thank you for sharing that. Sending hugs.
DeletePrecioso poema, con una buena ilustración.
ReplyDeleteQue tengas un guen fin de semana.
Me alegra que te haya gustado mi publicación de hoy. Muchas gracias. Te mando un beso.
DeleteMany thanks for introducing me to Becky Hemsley ...
ReplyDeleteSuch a nice image to go with the words.
All the best Jan
Thank you Jan, you are very welcome. Becky has a wonderful way of capturing many of our own feelings. Happy you enjoyed the image also :) All the best to you too.
DeleteBeautiful
ReplyDeleteThank you Christine :)
DeleteI remember you sharing some of her poems, Denise. I will check out Talking to the wild. Those who have a beautiful heart shine brightly, and we can't help but notice the light and love within them. : )
ReplyDelete~Sheri
What a lovely way of describing those special people Sheri. I think you will enjoy Becky’s other poetry :)
DeleteSuch a powerful message that speaks to the heart—words to carry with you every day.
ReplyDeleteHappy Saturday, Denise!
Thank you Veronica Lee, I am glad you enjoyed. Happy Saturday to you also :)
DeleteThis is such a lovely poem and I will be looking out for the work of Becky Hemsley now. Thank you for sharing this, Denise.
ReplyDeleteThank you and you are very welcome :) she has a real gift.
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