Friday, May 23, 2025

A POEM

Another long one but worth the read I think.



You stand and face the mirror

And you magnify your flaws

You focus on the features

That are so uniquely yours


But their uniqueness doesn't matter

For they simply don't conform

To the criteria of beauty

They've convinced you is the norm


They make believe that beauty

Doesn't go beneath your skin

That you simply can't be pretty

If you have a crooked grin


They say your eyes can't be too small

Your nose can't be too big

That your lips must be just right

Not over full and not too thin


They say your ears must not stick out

Your hair can't be too wild

Only those with tick-box beauty

May be physically admired


But those obsessed by beauty

Are the ones who can't be free

Because they're limited by what

Somebody else says they should be


So next time you face the mirror

And you smile your crooked grin

Remember beauty's just a tower

That society's trapped you in


And you think you can't escape

Because you think there is no key

But you simply need to re-define

The walls of your beauty


by

Becky Hemlsey from her book 

Talking to the Wild - The Bedtime Stories We Never Knew We Needed

Poem: The Tower

Preface: "What is a beautiful face without a beautiful soul?"

Page 27




Becky is wise beyond her years. 

Becky Hemsley is an author I discovered last year and am so happy I did because when reading her poetry, I find myself saying, "Wow!" Becky lives in Leicestershire, UK, with her husband, two boys and their dog. She was formerly a primary school teacher for 15 years but now writes full-time and has written four collections. The first - entitled 'Talking to the Wild', which features the poem 'Breathe'. Also, another book now which is a follow on, 'What the Wild Replied. I treated myself to these two books. She also has two further regular collections, and one of loss and grief poetry, as well as three children's books, one of which is an illustrated version of 'Breathe', which I have also shared here, and a children's book of the poem 'Starlight'. She is drawn to, and moved by, nature and its consistencies with human emotion (this I can attest to). In her words, "I often think the phrase 'human nature' is a good one to describe my thought process when writing. I aim to make a difference with words by helping people realize they are not alone."  She really is an amazing poet!




44 comments:

  1. I have "What The wild Replied"! Love this poem. God made us all different because each of us is so unique. Uniformity in beauty is not the way it is supposed to be.

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    1. Beautifully worded Ginny, couldn’t agree more :)

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  2. Lovely poem and sounds like such an interesting author. :)

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  3. Becky Hemsley’s words are a powerful reminder that true beauty begins when we dismantle the walls built by others and see ourselves through the lens of self-acceptance and soul-deep worth.

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    1. Absolutely Roentare! Thank you for putting it so succinctly :)

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  4. What a delight poem, love it Denise.

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  5. I love this! Those are words to live by. Such a great message!

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  6. This poem is a powerful reminder to cherish the real beauty within us, beyond what the world tries to define. It’s like a gentle friend encouraging us to see ourselves differently, and that’s something we all need.

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    1. Thank you for such a lovely description of this poem Melody :)

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  7. I love this poem, dear friend 🧡 I echo Ginny's comment, I feel the same way.

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    1. Thanks so much Linda and it makes me very happy that you enjoyed this poem. Have a wonderful day dear friend :)

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  8. Accept yourself as you are, and let others see your beauty.

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    1. So true and a lovely way to put it Janice. Thank you :)

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    1. Thank you Ananka, I am happy you enjoyed this little :)

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  10. Having read this poem I shall look in the mirror this morning and conclude that I am quite handsome! Self delusion is a fine art!

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    1. Good for you David :) and thank you for the smile.

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  11. What a wonderful poem. So true too. How many of us have hated the way we look because it doesn't fit in with what the magazines says is true beauty.

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    1. Happy you thought so Ann. It is a very wise poem. I read a model’s account once about how on one of her photo shoots, a magazine photoshopped her into a more svelte version of herself. A sad state of affairs and a terrible message for young people especially.

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  12. Lovely poem Denise! Take care, have a great day and a happy weekend.

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    1. Thank you Eileen and I wish you the same :)

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  13. It's a gift from God when we find an author who speaks to our hearts. I like your fav too.

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  14. This poem nails it. The world is influenced too much by superficial characteristics.

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    1. Absolutely! Couldn't agree more Red, thank you :)

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  15. I really love your the photo and the words are just beautiful
    Hugs cecilia

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    1. I am so glad you loved both the photo and the poem Cecilia :) Thank you for sharing that. Sending hugs.

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  16. Precioso poema, con una buena ilustración.
    Que tengas un guen fin de semana.

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    1. Me alegra que te haya gustado mi publicación de hoy. Muchas gracias. Te mando un beso.

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  17. Many thanks for introducing me to Becky Hemsley ...

    Such a nice image to go with the words.

    All the best Jan

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    1. Thank you Jan, you are very welcome. Becky has a wonderful way of capturing many of our own feelings. Happy you enjoyed the image also :) All the best to you too.

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  18. I remember you sharing some of her poems, Denise. I will check out Talking to the wild. Those who have a beautiful heart shine brightly, and we can't help but notice the light and love within them. : )

    ~Sheri

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    1. What a lovely way of describing those special people Sheri. I think you will enjoy Becky’s other poetry :)

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  19. Such a powerful message that speaks to the heart—words to carry with you every day.

    Happy Saturday, Denise!

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    1. Thank you Veronica Lee, I am glad you enjoyed. Happy Saturday to you also :)

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  20. This is such a lovely poem and I will be looking out for the work of Becky Hemsley now. Thank you for sharing this, Denise.

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    1. Thank you and you are very welcome :) she has a real gift.

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