Friday, December 19, 2025

A BIG THANK YOU...

 Firstly, I wanted to thank you my very dear blogging friends, for all your very sweet comments, and those from family and friends here and across the pond, on our 50th Anniversary. Gregg and I appreciated that more than we can put into words. It added to a very special day for us. Gregg was needed out of town for a few days and I didn't expect him home, but thanks to two very special people, they made sure we could spend most of the day together. Those very special people also sent us some beautiful flowers which I will share when they bloom. Heart is full at their kindness. 


 Above you can see part of a bouquet that Gregg had in hand when he walked through the door. I told him that Peruvian Lilies were in the first bouquet he ever bought home after we were married. I had never seen them before and have loved them ever since. He said, "Of course, I remembered that! Well, let's just say I remembered that." We had a chuckle of course. 50 years is a long time to remember such things, but I did and yes, another chuckle, as he often says where my emotions are concerned, I have a memory like a laser. True! I just read him this paragraph, "100 percent true!" he said with emphasis, and with yet another chuckle. Personally I believe it's a girl thing.


Our son and daughter-in-law were coming over to keep me company that evening, and when they found that Dad was coming home early and would be with us, we told them to go ahead with what we had originally planned. They treated us to a wonderful selection of Empanadas from one of their local eateries. I was asked if I would like to try them as it was a new food to me. I've heard of them and was not disappointed. The above photo he sent me to let me know they were on their way. The empanadas were wonderful, and we had such a fun time.


So that was our 50th Wedding Anniversary. The following photos are what we took on the 18th, when we were out and about. And here you go, my first doggy fix of the week!


As we were driving along, Gregg said to me, "Get your phone ready!" I wondered what was up. He had seen this little cutie a few cars ahead of us, changed lanes (no traffic coming up behind us) so that I would get a good view. As we went by, I was able to take a photo. We were just starting off on our journey heading out to run some errands and, lo and behold, when we were driving home, and as we turned left at the traffic light, who should pass us as they headed straight, was this little dog again, still with its head out the window. An hour had gone by since we had first seen cutie here. How about that for the strangest coincidence? I didn't get a photo that time but cropped the one from above for a closer look.


We stopped at the drive-thru coffee shop and this mysteriously made its way into my hand. He may be making another appearance in a day or so.


Next a photo taken while driving home through the neighborhood.


I am finishing off with two photos Gregg just found while on his iPad. These popped up and I asked him to send them to me so that I could share them again. This blog is getting so old that I seem to keep doing that, don't I? The photo was taken about 10 years ago (just guessing but it seems a long time ago). We were on vacation, and I had it put on an ornament.


The last one is of an old-fashioned Santa that I cut out of wood with my bandsaw (a birthday gift from husband I kid you not, and actually asked for). We used to joke that other people were asking their husbands for jewelry and there I was, asking for a bandsaw and a sander, and other things that I needed. In my craft show days, I used to buy several sheets of balsa wood and have the wood company cut them into 1-foot squares, so that I could more easily trace designs on them and cut them out. 


As I got older Gregg asked me to get rid of it, and the sander, which was on a stand. My hands and especially my fingers were not as steady as they used to be and cramped easily, and he feared for my fingers, lol! (I was also having difficulty holding a paintbrush.) In all those years I had never had any mishaps but he saw the writing on the wall. 

I had quite a cottage industry going for about 15 years. To add to the fun I took painting lessons and met lots of good people. It was a fun time selling all my ornaments at the many craft shows I participated in, not just ornaments but things like four-foot Santas and Angels on stands. The painting was my favorite part, seeing them come together, but I didn't mind cutting and sanding either. 

I had grown up with my Dad who was a hobbyist carpenter. His full-time job could be very stressful at times, and this was a great way for him to destress. I think wood dust was in my veins from an early age as I used to help Dad a lot, and I have always loved things made out of wood. His were things like tables and chairs, and when they bought a caravan for visits up to the Midlands to visit with relatives, he built bunk beds for it. 

One of his favorite things he made for family and friends were bird houses on a stand. He used to give those away as gifts. We knew a lot of people who were birders before we knew what the term meant. Us too as we were always checking to see which feathered friend landed in our garden. Living near the ocean as we did, we would get a lot of gulls by the dozens flying in.

These, as you can see, are great memories for me. Something I think more and more about these days. I can almost see my Dad smiling as I joined him in the garage. He was always grateful for the interest and help with his projects, and I used to get him things he needed, plus a very important cup of tea when Mum shouted she had put the kettle on and yelled that it was ready through the window. To this day, I still enjoy watching YouTube videos of how things are made out of wood, from log cabins to the smallest of projects. Dad started it all and I believe his father was the same.

This has turned into another ramble. I will end by saying I hope you have a wonderful day and thanks so much for dropping by and sticking with me through to the end of my waffling.




55 comments:

  1. happy anniversary you 2 kids...it sounds like it turned out really well!! such a cute family...each person sporting jush beautiful smiles. those yellow flowers in your bouquet will last forever, i forget their name!! i enjoy rambles, they are fun and unpredictable!!

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    1. Aww, nice to be called kids again, lol! Thanks Debbie we had a special time. They are Peruvian Lilies, also called Lily of the Inca. The ones I had in that first bouquet were pink. Glad you enjoyed my rambles, I never know where they are going to go. Unpredictable is a good word for them, and I'm glad you found them fun also.

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  2. Dear Denise, I read everything with such joy! It's so wonderful for me to have such a lovely memory. It touches my heart! The photos are beautiful; you are such a wonderful, kind family!
    Unfortunately, I can't say the same, only that I've found love with my current partner for the past 20 years, and that my life is now happy. That's why I'm so happy for you!
    The dogphoto is very sweet!
    Have a happy day , hugs Elke

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    1. Dear Elke, thank you for your very kind comment. I was so sad to read your life earlier was unhappy but am thrilled that you have happiness with your current partner. He sounds a very kind, sweet and honorable man. You deserve all the happiness in the world my dear friend and I am glad you found it with your partner. Happy weekend to you both :)

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  3. Looks like you had a lovely anniversary and I love the bouquet you got. I hope you have a wonderful day too!

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    1. Thank you Nicole, we certainly did. I hope you had a wonderful day also :)

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  4. Sounds like you had a wonderful anniversary. So glad that your husband was able to get home earlier than expected.
    Love all the decorations

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    1. Thank you Ann and so glad you liked them. It was a lovely surprise when I found out.

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  5. Congratulations on fifty years of married bliss. That’s quite an accomplishment - both the longevity and the bliss!

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  6. Hello,
    I am glad you had a happy time on your anniversary with your family.
    The food sounds yummy. The flowers are lovely. Love the cute doggie.
    Take care, have a wonderful day!

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    1. Thank you Eileen, everything was so lovely and seeing a little doggie always makes my day. You take care and have a wonderful day also :)

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  7. Happy anniversary! What a milestone. I really enjoyed your adventure.

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    1. That wonderful, so glad and thank you for sharing that Jenn :)

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  8. The smell of sawdust always makes Sue tink of her dad who did a lot of woodwork in the basement when she was young.

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    1. That's lovely! I remember when I heard the doorbell go once. I answered it forgetting I was covered in sawdust, and forgetting my safety goggles always made deep red indentations around my eyes. We were both quite shocked at our reactions to each other. Well, maybe from her more than me. I never did that again!

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  9. Your son is exactly a younger copy of your husband :-)) That X'mas ornament of you two is really lovely.

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    1. Thank you Angie, and also for the likeness, very true :)

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  10. You were quite a talented crafter. Thanks for sharing some of your back story. Sounds like it was a very special day.

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    1. Thanks Marcia, and yes it was a very special day :)

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  11. your craft with the band saw threw me back to my high school years. My brother loved to cut things out and I loved to draw and paint. My aunt owned a kindergarten. she would find cute animals that she wanted to hang on the walls, and I would draw it on the wood, David would cut it out and then I would paint. she OVERpaid me I am sure. but they were cute. some were 2 feet tall and some were inches. the kids all loved them.
    so glad the 4 of you could celebrate together. the photo on the ornament on the tree is truly a perfect photo of both of you... I enjoyed your memories and the stirring of my old memories

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    1. That's a sweet memory Sandra, and thank you so much for sharing it. I love to hear stories like this. Your aunt sounds like a sweet lady too. Appreciate your very kind comment and I'll be over right after I publish this, to find out how it goes with you :)

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  12. You call it waffling, but I call it newsy and interesting.

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  13. This post has joyfulness emanating from it. That cookie would somehow find its way into my hand, too. The powers are beautiful as is the sentiment behind them.

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    1. Thank you Sandra, I appreciate your sentiment in your first sentence and enjoyed the other two.

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  14. WHAT a loving and love filled post. So much special going on.
    Hugs cecilia

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    1. I am so happy you thought so Cecilia and appreciate your sweet words. Thank you and sending hugs, Denise xo

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  15. Happy 50th Anniversary! It’s so sweet that Gregg remembered those Peruvian Lilies after all these years.

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  16. Your Dad sounds so wonderful. And you spotted and snapped the cutest anniversary dog! I love how you put him in the heart at the bottom. The ornament photo of you & Gregg is awesome!!! I did not know you were such a craftsperson! I would love to see some of the other things you made, they would make fun posts.

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    1. I was very blessed with my Dad, my Mum too. They were good people. I'm glad you liked my little dog logo. My signature put togethers are all part of the fun of writing a blog post for me. I have a few of my ornaments on here but I would have to sort them out and that might take a while, same for any photos I have of the other ornaments I used to make. Thanks Ginny :)

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  17. Hello friend. I have been under the weather and away from the computer for two weeks now. (Seems much longer!) and am enjoying this afternoon trying to catch up. I so enjoyed your "ramble" today. I have not had an empanada either (or at least I don't think so) but so glad you enjoyed something new as well as all the love from your sweet family on your big day! Congratulations!! I hope to be blogging again next week but, either way, happiest December wishes to you!!

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    1. And hello to you too friend :) I am very sorry you've been down with the flu. I popped over a little while ago to see how you were. These things take a long time getting rid of and I hope it won't be long before you've shown yours the back door :) Thank you for your sweet comments on my blog post. I really appreciate that. Feel better soon! You'll be feeling much better for Christmas week I'm sure. Have a Very Happy Christmas Jennifer.

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  18. I once got two big bags of manure for Christmas, and boy was I excited. They were for my garden. I've always wished I knew how to use power tools. I should have taught myself years ago. Have a great weekend.

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    1. Now your post made me smile Leslie as my Dad's other passion was his garden and he knew all about manure, lol! The favorite he swore by was chicken manure. We used to buy it from the same farm we got our eggs. When he laid that around his flowers, he knew he was going to get a wonderful showing that summer.

      If you ever told me I would know a lot about power tools when I was young, I would have said I don't think so. But there you go, these forks in the road take us on some wonderful adventures. You have a great weekend too Leslie :)

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  19. "This has turned into another ramble" and what a lovely ramble and read it was :)

    All the best Jan

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    1. You are very sweet to say so Jan. Thank you so much and all the best to you too :) Denise

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  20. And a darn good ramble it was. Love this post. Happy 50th. Just amazing.

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  21. That was a sweet anniversary! Loved the pics.
    Shaky hands and a jigsaw don't go well together. Was a good idea.
    I have always been fascinated by woodworking and refinishing, too. Never have had much experience, but love watching shows and videos. That and pottery making...next lifetime, I guess. Health won't let me anymore in this one--lol! :)

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    1. Thank you Rita, and no they certainly don't. So nice that we are kindred spirits with the woodworking. I loved pottery too but for some reason I couldn't get the hang of that and the pots were let's just say, very interesting, lol! Yes, our health takes over and shapes what we do now, doesn't it? Darn it! :)

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  22. Uy de nuevo les mando un abrazo y que lindo perrito. Te mando un beso.

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    1. ¡Gracias, amiga! Me alegra que te gustaran los pájaros. ¡Felices fiestas y te mando un beso!

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  23. Belated anniversary greetings. Loved hearing about your dad. And oh, what a splendid time you had. Great family photo and adorable dog sighting! Those flowers are fantastic -- I think he is a keeper!

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    1. Thank you so much Jeanie and I'm glad you enjoyed my past memories and my post as a whole. Yes, I think he is :)

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  24. Yum, empanadas! That was a nice treat. Love the photo of the 4 of you! Some great memories shared here, Denise. Here's to many more!!

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    1. It certainly was a nice treat and a definite first for me. Thank you Ellen, I really appreciate your sweet comments :)

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